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There are some pretty well-established relationship qualities that confirm you and your new partner are a match made in heaven: excellent communication, a feeling of giddiness and delight when you are together, a sense of ease and comfort.

But what are the weirdest s you're compatible? At first sight, they might make you stop and scratch your head and say, "Hmm … really? It's the wild and wacky stuff that just makes you good togethereven though it maybe doesn't completely make sense.

That kind of stuff. I reached out to dating and relationship experts to find out what kinds of things they'd nominate for this listbecause all I could think of was a mutual love of SeinfeldWhen Harry Met Sallyand long meals in bed.

Best match ever! Here are 12 ways you can tell if you're compatible with your partner that you've never thought of before. Take that, haters who secretly thought you'd never find the perfect, head-over-heels, drunk-in-love match of the gods! Nope, didn't see that one coming. Yeah, that sounds about right. Got it. Do you have, like, mutual buddies on FB? A lot of friends in common is a of mutual compatibility, life coach Kali Rogers tells Bustle.

Plus, you already know lots of each other's friends, so you already have that part down pat. Yeah, it rules if you have some overlap in the friend department. And it's even better if your friends who didn't know your partner before are now your partner's friends, or at least in their fan club. But a fight here and there is normal — and actually preferable, Slatkin says.

The issues you face with your spouse trigger your own personal past hurts and issues.

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And they can do them, just alongside you doing you. Whether it's an in-tune morning or an all-around good vibe, you don't have to alter your thang for your partner. Instead of feeling like you are changing everything up for them, you can just chill together, and "your love styles match up," as she puts it. Hint: That means that your love styles match up.

The same goes for "physical touch, verbal affirmations, and having things done for you. Yup, conflict is great — and it's even better when you can resolve things calmly, relationship coach and therapist Anita Chlipala tells Bustle.

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Like Slatkin, Chlipala says it's a good thing if you're in conflict from time to time, as long as things can be resolved in a timely fashion. Relationships are work, and finding middle ground can be tough. And that is A-OK. He goes on to elaborate with a few examples: "When my wife and I started seeing each other, she found out I really love attending minor league baseball games; however, she had never even been to one.

So as she ventured into the world with me, she started to see that she enjoyed taking in a game, sitting in the warm sun, and having amazing conversations while we were there. Everyone has weird things they enjoy, so it's all about trying your partner's weird pastimes, whatever they may be. That makes it way more exciting than meeting someone who just likes all of the same exact things as you.

They open up about things that might not be immediately obvious because you make them feel comfortable. Sure, a feeling of relaxation when you're together rules, but this is about your partner opening up to you about quirks, weird secrets, strange habits, and the like and you doing the same. Get comfy and enjoy! A weirdindeed! Cindi Sansone-Braff, author of Grant Me a Higher Lovetells Bustle: "You love to sleep next to this person and feel the warmth your bodies generate together, You find yourselves cuddling each other throughout the night. You wake up in the morning happy to see each other, and because you're already naked, morning sex comes as natural as the sun rising in the East.

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Extra bonus points to those who love to snuggle up in bed and read forever. Yes, long talks on the beach are important, but you have to be able to just say nothing with your love.

Silence is golden, after all. Want more of Bustle's Sex and Relationships coverage? Check out our new podcast, I Want It That Waywhich delves into the difficult and downright dirty parts of a relationship, and find more on our SoundCloud .

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