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Dating can be a lot of fun. You get to meet new people, have new experiences, and on an especially good date, add a little romance to your life. But with all the good stuff, there are also some downsides to putting yourself out there, like awkward dates, or dates that don't happen at all because the other person doesn't show.

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Before ghostingthere was the OG jerk move: Standing someone up. It sucks to get stood up. Imagine you matched on Hinge, hit it off over your mutual likes of puppies and tacos, and decided to — gasp — meet in person for a date. The date was set for 6pm. You send him a quick text.

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Do: Cut your losses. It would be nice if we could predict who was going to stand us up and never give them the time of day in the first place, but sadly that is not life.

Write this one off and move on to the next. D0: Treat yourself. Do: Call a friend to come meet you. Having someone to talk to will also help distract you from that extremely powerful urge you might have to call your almost-date and let them know what you really think of them.

Do: Look on the bright side. Do: Stay positive about dating. All you can do is keep trying and if you plan to keep going on dates, you might as well try to enjoy yourself.

Instead, say nothing. You have friends and your therapist for that.

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If you really do want to give them a second chancedo so with caution and make them work for it. Dwelling on what you could have done wrong to make this person not want to meet you is pointless.

And you did absolutely nothing wrong. Listen, getting stood up happens to the best of us and most people who have done any dating in their lives have been where you are right now.

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